Warning Signs of Bullying-USD 320 - Wamego Public Schools

Warning Signs . . .

that a child is being bullied may include:

Comes home with torn, damaged or missing pieces of clothing, books, or other belongings.
Has unexplained cuts, bruises and scratches.
Has few, if any, friends with whom he or she spends time.
Seems afraid of going to school, walking to and from school, riding the school bus or taking part in organized activities with peers.
Takes a long, "illogical" route when walking to or from school.
Has lost interest in school work or suddenly begins to do poorly in school.
Appears sad, moody, teary or depressed when he or she comes home.
Complains frequently of headaches, stomach aches, or other physical ailments.
Has trouble sleeping or has frequent bad dreams.
Experiences a loss of appetite.
Appears anxious and/or suffers from low self-esteem.

If your child shows any of these signs, it does not necessarily mean that he or she is being bullied. However, it is a possibility worth exploring.

Warning Signs . . .

that a child is bulling others may include:

Controls others through verbal threats and physical actions to get
his or her way.
Quick to anger and soon to use force.
Tends to have little empathy for the victim.
May have been exposed to models of aggressive behaviors.
Inappropriately perceives hostile intent in the actions of others.
Sees aggression as the only way to preserve his or her self-image.
Focuses on angry or revengeful thoughts.
May have family problems at home.
Unable to compromise or share the spotlight.
Unable to resolve conflict with a win-win solution.

If you child shows any of these signs, it does not necessarily mean that he or she is bullying others. However, it is a possibility worth exploring.